You Got The Ring. Now What? 10 Things to Think About After The Proposal.
Girl….It’s Happening….It’s Really Really Happening!
You’ve got the ring, CONGRATULATIONS! Now what?
Everything feels so surreal! You said yes, and like it or not, the weeks following your proposal are guaranteed to feel like you’ve been swooped up in a whirlwind!
You have so much to think about, people to tell, and tons to get done. It can all feel overwhelming and many times a Bride-To-Be becomes so consumed with the planning that she becomes overwhelmed. With friends to tell, colors, venues, & wedding parties to pick, it is hard to know the perfect starting point!
No problem, Dream Field Farms is here to help!
1. START HERE: The first thing you will need to do is call the folks. Both sets. In-person or over a screen share. They should always be the first to know…..(The answer that is.) Next on the list are siblings, grandparents, and BFF’S. Please don’t be “That” couple that shares their news on social media before they share it with the people that support your relationship the most.
2. Listen UP! This next tip is crucial! GO GET A MANICURE. (Like right now!) For the next few weeks, your hands are going to be in the spotlight. You don’t want to have some sorry looking banana fingers that prevent you from showing off your new bling.
3. Instagram is the best platform for you and your fiance, (because you can say that now.) to post a, “WE ARE TAKING THE LEAP”, “JUST GOT ENGAGED”, “SHE SAID YES” selfie that highlights your new ring. Better yet, post the proposal video for the world to see as though they were there with you when it happened. PRO TIP: Each year on your anniversary go back and watch the video together to commemorate the moment you decided that your love was BIG ENOUGH TO MAKE IT OFFICIAL.
4. Celebrate! Gather your family and friends together for a simple engagement party, dinner, or dink. Keep it simple, but make it official. You’re engaged and that is totally toastable.
5. CORNERSTONE MUST: Think about a date! Wedding venues get booked far in advance and if you want a space that is special and works within your budget you will need to have some advanced notice. Think about the advantages of a day vs. night wedding, pick a convenient location for your guests, and make sure that you are not pressured into something that is well beyond your budget restraints.
6. Narrow Down Your Top 5 Venue Choices. Get on the same page regarding your desire to have a big or small wedding. Being on the same page is critical. If your family is paying you will want to make decisions together and ensure that you’ve nailed the guest count & want to stay within budget. If you are considering Dream Field Farms we would love to answer any questions about size, space & venue attributes. A major plus for using us is that your wedding party can book one of our cozy cabins and stay on site, along with you and your groom in the newlywed suite, of course. Simply call: (334) 534-6976
7. Create a Pinterest Board. Organize the look and feel of your perfect event. Find inspiration and save it for plans to come. Share this board with your wedding planner, bridesmaids, mother and fiance. Use this as your master wedding collaboration tool.
8. Choose Who Will Be In The Wedding Party. How many bridesmaids and groomsmen are you planning for your big day? Will you be choosing a maid of honor and best man? Consider how much time the individuals will have. Will there be someone organizing bachelor and bachelorette parties? Do they have funds for dresses or tuxedo rentals?
9. Dress Selection: Do not make a snap decision on the first dress your eyes fall in love with. Be sure to take your time in choosing the most important outfit of your life. Budget, designer, style, fit, and season should be your guiding pillars for dress shopping.
10. Planner or Not? Are you thinking about hiring a planner for your special event? If the idea of planning a wedding makes you pick up a brown paper bag, then it might be time to hire a wedding coordinator. Working with a wedding planner can keep things streamlined, stress-free, and even cost-effective. We have worked with countless professional coordinators and would love to help with a referral if you need one.
We know how excited you are; how beautiful being in love feels. Now that you have the bling the next part of your life is just beginning. It sounds like you have a lot of choices to make and that you are going to need to be at your best. Take a few moments to embrace your next steps. Practice self-care as you go. Enjoy the moments and take your time!
Best wishes to you as you journey into this thing called marriage. It’s the most wonderful ride you will never want to get off!